Big Boy Toys

Ayden practically put himself down for his nap this morning and it was glorious. He woke after a half hour, as usual, but fell back to sleep while he nursed afterwards. I just snuggled into the glider and browsed Pinterest while he finished his nap. It brought me back to his newborn days when it would take a good 45 minutes to feed him and he always drifted off to sleep at the breast back then (ha, waaaay back! 6 whole months ago...). I would read on my Kindle, or Facebook, or the like. Though I didn't feel quite as productive then, since I felt like all I did was sit and nurse him all day, I honestly enjoyed every second of it. I'm glad Ayden is on the EASY routine because he always gets full feedings in and is typically in a great mood during his awake time. I will admit, though, on the rare chance that he does fall asleep while nursing these days, I SOAK it up. I never feel more like a mommy than when his warm little body is snuggled up against mine during those fleeting moments. It forces time to slow down. Instead of stuffing diapers while I play with him or even going about the day with him in a wrap or the Ergo, I get to just sit and admire him. His ever growing lashes, his wispy baby hair, his tiny hands and fingernails, all of the little rolls that he's getting. Every inch of him is wonderful.

Since the summer program at the dance studio has started up, Thursdays are pretty busy for us.  We have story time at 11 which gives me enough time to get through my morning routine and him his morning nap before hand. 

Story time fun!

Afterwards, I usually walk over to Whole Foods to pick up the odd bunch of bananas or bag of pecans that we have run out of.  I have to be at the studio by 1:30 to teach so depending on how I feel I either come home and try to catch Ayden's 2nd nap with him or I go straight to my parents house for a little visit before teaching.  Today was a nap day.  Ayden usually falls asleep on the way home from story time and it's hit or miss on whether or not he'll transition from his car seat well enough to continue his nap.  The odds were in my favor today and we snuggled together for a good 30-40 minutes before I had to gather everything I needed to take with us and head out. 

Ayden has come to love the studio!  He likes the music, the mirrors, playing on the hard wood floor (his toys make such wonderful banging sounds there) and watching the girls dance.  He was in a stellar mood the whole time.  My mom has been coming at 3 to hang out with Ayden during my last two classes.  They are hour-long aerobic/flexibility classes and I prefer to do the exercises wth the girls so I can gauge the intensity properly.  I don't want to push them too hard because I'm sitting on my bum so it's nice for her to take care of Ayden so I can focus on my classes.  She got him to sleep for his late afternoon nap and then took over the class for me while I fed him once he woke up.  Mom's are so helpful :).

Playing at the studio :)

When we got home and had our little family reunion, David took Ayden for a bit and this is how I found them:

Ayden has definitely adopted a love of music and I hope that it is always something that will bring him and David together. 

At dinner, Ayden had his usual avocado and also tried a spinach leaf and a couple of chunks of butternut squash.  So far, he has liked broccoli and spinach the best.  I'm not sure what it is about fruit, the squash and even the avocado that makes him make hilarious facial expressions and even cough-type noises as he tries to push it out of his mouth.  Perhaps the flavor is too intense for now?  I think he has liked everything he has tried, because he puts them into his mouth again and again, but the broccoli and spinach stay in his mouth while he happily sucks on them.  We have really enjoyed having him participate in dinner with us!

We've made taking a bath a regular part of Ayden's bedtime routine now.  Its about time since he loves it so much!  He is still having some issues with cradle cap so we weren't fully bathing him too often as that can make it worse.  I've been using coconut oil twice a day lately and it really seems to be helping.  I put a soft lamp in the bathroom and we play relaxing music so it's all part of the wind down ritual as opposed to an exciting bright and playful time.  He still plays but it's a bit more chill than our morning baths used to be.  

My plans for tomorrow are to prep the house for the weekend, meal plan and make our grocery list.  I also have a couple of gift cards so I plan on  getting out into civilization again tomorrow!  One of the gift cards is for $25 to BuyBuyBaby; so I plan on purchasing a new "big boy" toy for Ayden.  I was thinking about getting these wooden Melissa and Doug toys:

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For now he'll just enjoy touching and gumming on them but it's never too early to start talking about shapes and colors!  I also just love wooden toys and surprisingly, we don't have very many. 

What was your baby's favorite toy at 6 months old?

~Sarah

Christmas In July?

We had The Grinch at our house tonight!

Oh wait... That's just a green-faced Ayden! :)

Ayden actually swallowed a little bit of his avocado at dinner tonight. He also enjoyed squishing it through his fingers and smearing it all over his tray.

 

Needless to say, we've been taking a lot more baths since starting Baby Led Weaning :).

 

I finally took his monthly pictures today. I'll go back and edit them into the 6 month post for my own future reference but will also go ahead and put them in this post as well.

Click to see: 1 Month, 2 Months, 3 Months, 4 Months, 5 Months

 I take the actual pictures with our DSLR and just snap a few on my phone to guarantee that they make it on here. Mama's (especially ones who write daily blog posts) need things to be quick and easy. Hooking the nice camera up to the computer, accessing the external hard drive, importing the pictures, deleting them from the camera, choosing the best ones and then uploading them to the blog is a process that does not fall into the "quick and easy" category. Because of this, I snap a couple of pictures on my phone as well to guarantee that they actually make it onto the blog. So the ones you see on here are not the "keepers" but hey, whatever works!!

These little photo shoots are getting pretty interesting! It's definitely getting more difficult to get a great shot, but it's also more fun all at the same time. I enjoy going back through the pictures like a flip book. The not-so-great pictures are the ones that capture him the best.

 

While I had the camera out, I took the opportunity to take some extra snapshots as well.

Mr. Owl Eyes

Oh  man, there's just something about this one! Be still, my heart...

You just can't go wrong with natural lighting!!

Little Miss was still under the weather so she did not grace us with her presence again today. Hopefully she'll be feeling better by Monday. Since she didn't come, Ayden and I had a chill day at home. I made our weekly usuals (kale chips, paleo crunch cereal and a dessert, which were paleo fudge pops this week - YUM!) Though I enjoy our home and getting to move leisurely throughout my day, I am looking forward to getting out of the house for story time and teaching dance tomorrow.

Now that Ayden's teeth are through, and he can take a break from wearing his fussy pants, he fills his days with naps and crawling practice. He is so determined and persistent! I hope those are qualities that he continues to carry with him as he grows.

I have learned a valuable lesson this week about how it could be quite possible to be too intentional with your parenting. In my efforts to avoid accidental parenting, I was interfering too much and disrupting the natural harmony that lies beneath. This is not to say you shouldn't think about possible outcomes when you go to make decisions, but maybe it is a good idea to only try to "fix" things that are broken to begin with? All I can say is that ever since I stopped worrying so much, our days have been happier and more enjoyable. I am soaking up every minute!

~Sarah

Ayden's Favorite Things: 6 Month Edition

 

We had another amazing day today. I think following my heart and instincts was the answer to all of our problems. Ayden got in an hour long nap (half after nursing on my lap and the rest in his crib) and a couple of shorter ones in the Ergo. Funny that when I stopped following someone else's agenda we ended up with the very outcome I had been working so hard to achieve. I also accomplished my goal of getting the upstairs back in order which mainly consisted of unpacking and doing laundry. Fun, fun...

Ayden was in an awesome mood yet again today. I think it's a combination of having a break from teething and me just letting him be. I still guided him through his routine but I didn't attempt to push or mold any outcomes and we moved through the day in sync and at ease.

So far so good still with Baby-Led Weaning. We're pretty sure he ingested a chunk of avocado at lunch and a tiny bit of broccoli at dinner. For the most part he just gums and sucks on the food. That is the beauty of BLW, there's no hurry. He'll still rely on breast milk for nutrients until he gets the hang of it on his own time. His breastfeeding intake hasn't changed at all. I actually feed him right before his food exploration adventures so that they are just that.

 

When Ayden was 1 month old, I wrote a post about his favorite things. These included diaper changes, sleeping vertically and bath time. Here we are at 6 months and though he still loves diaper changes and baths, and any chance to be naked for that matter, things have definitely changed around here! Now Ayden is completely aware of and involved with the world. Here are some of his new and improved favorite things:

1)Like I mentioned above, he still loves baths and now swimming!

He is a water baby for sure. He likes to splash, have water poured onto him and also enjoys capturing floating toys like his little yellow ball and rubber duck. So far he has no fear in the water and we hope to keep it that way!

2) Since I mentioned how he liked to sleep in his 1 month post, I'll mention it here too. He is a belly sleeper all the way! He sleeps on his belly all night only moving his head from side to side. He takes after his mommy :)

3) PETS! He is completely fascinated by both Maverick and Polly. He is content to just watch them but if they get close enough to touch I'm pretty sure it makes his day. I'm pretty sure Maverick is part of the reason Ayden has come to like walks in the stroller.

4) Touch. Ayden loves to be worn, tickled, kissed, hugged, "tossed" into the air. You name it, if it involves being touched, he's a fan!

5) Strings! He will sit and play with the shoe strings on my sneakers FOREVER! They never get old. He also loves to get his hands on cords, wires and anything else string-like.

6) Clapping. It all started with story time and the Peas Porriage Hot song. Now if you clap he smiles so big! He's a huge fan and I bet he'll be clapping on his own soon.

7) Music. I can get him to smile for pictures on command just by singing "You Are My Sunshine." He also loves "Bushel and A Peck," "Row Row Row Your Boat," "Baby Mine," Our Song and anything else we can make up to any given melody. If it's a song, chances are he'll love it! Throw clapping in with it (hence his love for Peas Porriage and Patty Cake) and you've made his day.

8) Crawling. He is not crawling yet but oh he wants to! He spends practically all day practicing these days. He's even pulled up to standing a couple of times. Once was on his Zany Zoo (also a current favorite) and called out for me (as well as a 6 month old can) because he didn't know what to do once he got up there. Here is a clip of some of his efforts today:

There are probably things I am leaving out but this paints a pretty good picture of how far we've come in the past 5 months since I wrote his last favorite things post. It was fun to go back and read, not only because he was so tiny in the pictures which gave me all kinds of warm fuzzies, but also because I said things like, "He has really come to life!" Haha, I had no idea :).

~Sarah

Beware Of Baby Trainers

Big boy!  No blanket booster :)

Ayden's second tooth came through today!  Our little man sure has a lot going on all at once!  Overall today was an amazing day.  Little Miss has a cough so her mom kept her home.  The house was a wreck from the weekend and ever since last night I was at peace with the fact that it would take a while, maybe even days, to get it fully back in order.  I woke up today with one house goal: Put the downstairs back together and save the upstairs for tomorrow.  Since I didn't start out with crazy high standards for myself today, I met my goal and felt accomplished.  I also had time to take an nice, long nap with Ayden (he slept for almost 2 hours!)...

Signing, "I love you" and doing "the sprinkler" in his sleep!

...and met a friend at the mall.  She is pregnant and needed some maternity jeans.  Their baby will be born right around Ayden's birthday!  They will either be best friends or boyfriend/girlfriend immediately.  David and I are two years apart so one's nothing! Haha, hopefully the kids are down with our  plans :).

When David got home, I had dinner prepped and ready to cook.  We stuck it in the fridge and went to a nearby park for a run.  We plan on running another 5k in a couple of weeks so we need to start training.  The best part?  I actually wanted to work out.  I think I am slowly coming back to life! 

We couldn't have timed it more perfectly.  Ayden was getting sleepy as we were getting ready.  I lathered him up with sunscreen and grabbed his sun hat and we were off.  We drove to the park and he fell asleep in the stroller just a few minutes into our run.  It was so peaceful!  It was a little hot, but the wind was blowing.  I'd be lying if I said it felt good, because I am very out of shape, but I pushed myself and made it the whole way without stopping.  Go me!  

Since Ayden is 6 months old now, it's time for solids!  We are choosing Baby Led Weaning so Ayden got a stick of avocado and a stick of mango for his first meal.

 Ayden has actually been "ready" to start eating solids for a few weeks now.  He's been sitting up on his own, has great hand/mouth coordination, etc. but I still felt the need to wait until the 6 month mark.  He went to work on his food like he'd been eating solids for his whole little life.  I will write a whole post dedicated to Baby Led Weaning (BLW) at a future date (you can read about another blogger's take on it here and here) but I will go ahead and mention just a couple of things about BLW today.  If you don't have a history of food allergies, you do not have to be quite as careful about introducing just one food at a time.  Obviously still watch for any reactions but the reality is that food allergies typically run in families.  We will hold off on things like nuts and honey, but for fruits and vegetables there won't be too much of a concern.  Also, while doing BLW, you must realize the difference between gagging and choking.  Gagging is a natural and necessary reflex that prevents food from going too far.  If your child is gagging, their body is doing it's job.  Typically a baby will only trigger the gag reflex a few times before they learn how far is too far and just don't do it anymore.  There is so much more to BLW but as I said before, that is for another day.  If you are interested in reading the book on it, you can purchase it here.  It is so fun to witness this new chapter of Ayden's life!  David and I truely enjoy wholesome, delicious food and can't wait to share that love with Ayden.

On another note, I have been doing some soul searching today.  If you've been readng this blog, you may know that we've experienced our fair share of sleep "problems" over the past 6 months.  Night time sleep has actually become pretty consistent now with 3-4 hour stretches (after which he eats a full feeding so I don't feel bad waking that often).  Our current issue lies with naps being too short, typically only 30 minutes at a time (except for today's but I was sleeping with him).  I have been reading The Baby Whisperer's books and trying out some of her techniques but to be honest, everything is much easier said than done.  Ayden usually wakes from his naps in a great mood and ready to play so it is next to impossible to get him to go back to sleep in order to lengthen his naps.  I would waste half my day attempting to get him to go back to sleep which would inevitably result in my feeling frustrated with poor Ayden and disapointed in myself.  While I was pregnant, I read Attachment Parenting  by Dr Sears and our parenting style definitlely leans toward the attachment parenting (AP) end of the spectrum.  Of the "7 B's" of AP:

1. Birth Bonding
2. Breastfeeding
3. Babywearing
4. Bedding close by
5. Belief of the language value of your baby's cry
6. Beware of baby trainiers
7. Balance

 we do 5.  All of them except for bedding close by and beware of baby trainers.  Balance comes and goes, but that's pretty natural.  We do strive for it though, and that's what's important.  So what I've been soul searching about is why we haven't adopted all 7 since it is obvious that AP seems to be what works for us and the way our "comtemporary cruncy" selves naturally tend to lean. 

As for bedding close by, Dr. Sears says that the best sleeping arrangment is the one that gets everyone the most sleep.  I actually do not sleep very comfortably with Ayden in the bed with me.  He likes to pacify on me which wakes me often and I don't move much, which results in my waking up stiff and with sore hips.  We could keep him in a co-sleeper or side car his crib but that doesn't work for us because then David's sleep would be inturrupted.  David has to go to work everyday and doesn't have the opportunity to nap like I do so he needs to be well rested.  It is a big responsibility to be the sole breadwinner of a family and he needs to be able to perform the best he can while at work.  That is why having Ayden in his own room is the best option for our family. I have a video monitor and have it set low enough to where it wakes me but not David and that is the sleeping arrangement that works best for us. 

The other of the B's that we haven't been following, beware of baby trainers, is the one I've been reflecting about.  If you were to choose a baby trainer, The Baby Whisperer is the most... "humane" (for lack of a better word) of them all, in my opinion.  I think that her methods are sound and do not leave a baby to "cry it out" which would never be something I could do.  When I read her books, everything she says seems to make sense and it motivates me to get to work.  On the other hand, on the days that I do read her books and actually try to impliment her methods, we have what I would call a "bad day" by the end of it.  The kind of days that leave me exhausted and frustrated by the time David gets home. Ayden does a lot of fussing/crying, I feel defeated and like a failure of a mother.  These are not good thoughts or feelings to have, especially when being a mommy has been my dream and this is IT.  It is happening right now and I want to love every second of it, not feel like I'm a complete failure.  I have read a couple of things recently that made me second guess my "need" to ignore this B.  First, I read this article by Dr. Sears on "8 Infant Sleep Facts Everyone Should Know."  The second I read it, tension left my body and it just felt good to "hear" a professional say things like:

Babies need to be parented to sleep, not just put to sleep. Some babies can be put down while drowsy yet still awake and drift, others need parental help by being rocked or nursed to sleep. -source

and

 Some babies need help getting back to sleep. Some "resettlers" or "self-soothers" can go through this vulnerable period without completely awakening, and if they do wake up, they can ease themselves back into a deep sleep. Other babies need a helping hand, voice, or breast to resettle back into deep sleep. From these unique differences in sleep cycle design, we learn that one of the goals of nighttime parenting is to create a sleeping environment that helps baby go through this vulnerable period of nightwaking and reenter deep sleep without waking up. - source

These things make me feel better because this is what has been working for us.  I have tried and tried to get Ayden to sleep independently, and maybe what we did early on set us on this path, but reading this makes me feel accopmlished and right and wonderful.  I'm pretty sure that 5 or even 1 year from now I will not be looking back at Ayden's first year or two and wishing I had held him or rocked him less.  There are times every now and then where having to help him get to sleep is "inconvinient" but that is just when life is getting in the way of what truely matters. 

After all of this soul searching and talking it all out with David, we have decided to keep doing exactly what we are currently doing.  We like having Ayden on a routine because we feel all people thrive on predictability and we still want to work toward having him nap on his own in his own bed but we are okay with letting that be on his time.  Once we talked this out and I said all of my thoughts out loud it felt wonderful and right. 

It also seemed interesting to read this today on my Baby Center App:

My favorite part was where it said, "keep in mind that your baby's temperment and natural bodily rhythms will help determine how and when he or she naps..."  Thank you, baby center, for reminding/reassuring me that my baby is still "normal" even if he doesn't take long naps.

I suppose the lesson to be learned here is that there are tons of professionals, methods, and opinons out there and you have to take in what you can, apply what you want, and do what you need to do to feel great at the end of the day.  I'm pretty sure I've said something along these lines before, but I aparantly need to be reminded every now and then.  Follow your heart and enjoy every second because it really does go by too fast. I followed my heart today instead of a baby trainer.  Ayden hardly fussed and was either happy or sleeping; and I felt wonderful about myself, Ayden and even our messy house from start to finish.  There can't be anything wrong with that.

~Sarah

Night and Day

 

We ended our Nashville visit today. We had so much fun and are so glad the parties were arranged the way they were (guys during the day and girls at night) so that we could both attend. On our way out of their neighborhood (we stopped by for a last goodbye before hitting the road), we wished we had one more day for us all to hang out together.

To be honest, our trip down there left a bit of a bad feeling about the drive home. Lucky for us, though, Ayden was on our side today!!

The trips were like night and day. He slept for the first half (an hour and a half!) and then was awake, happy and playful for the rest! I also thought ahead and used my manual pump to get a bottle ready for an on-the-go feed while he slept. When he woke I was able to feed him right away so he never had the opportunity to get fussy in the first place. I'm learning and taking notes as I go!

During the car ride David helped me meal plan, I made our grocery list, took a half hour nap and read Catching Fire out loud after Ayden's feeding. I'd call that an enjoyable and productive car ride.

When we got home we unloaded the car and went to the grocery. David dropped Ayden and me off and while he went to pick up the pets I fed Ayden again, imported some videos and pictures from the trip and started dinner.

Ayden started rubbing his face at about 7:30 so I handed dinner prep over to David and brought Ayden up for bed. It is now 8:00, we have completed our bedtime routine and Ayden is in his crib practicing his crawling instead of falling asleep. Milestones are not the best helpers when it comes to baby sleep.  One drawback of traveling and being away from familiar triggers and routines is that it always takes a few days to get back to normal.

Speaking of crawling, I shall end this post with a video of Ayden's current progress on this huge milestone. He is almost there!

Wish us luck with getting him to bed and eating our dinner before it's cold!

~Sarah

6 Months Old!

I can't believe our baby is 6 months old today!  We are amazed at how much he has changed.

He has come to life and is an active member of our family.  It's hard to remember what it was like before his arrival and we both fall in love with him more everyday.  We both still stop and look at him and say, "We have a SON!" or "He is ours, can you believe it?!?"  He is just amazing.

As I do every month, I take a look at a milestone list just to see where he is and where he is headed in comparison.  We realize that every baby is unique and achieves every milestone at his/her own pace, but it's still fun see where he lies in general. 

As for physical development, he's actually sitting up on his own.  He began doing this the day after he turned 5 months old and now he rarely falls over.  He has learned how far is too far and usually corrects himself, quickly regaining balance.  When he does occasionally fall he closes his eyes and flinches on the way down.  It's cute and he usually smiles once he's down there.  He's a tough little guy!  He does not get to sitting on his own yet but he can get to the crawling position (hands and knees) from his belly and from sitting.  Once on his hands and knees he rocks back and forth and will occasionally reach one hand out for a toy.  He is also doing everything else on the list above.

In the area of intellectual development, he is doing everything on the list above except for imitating sounds and looking for named objects.  He makes a lot of sounds, and is very interested when we imitate his sounds but we haven't heard him make a specific sound just because we made it.  We say dog, cat, fan, mommy, daddy, etc. whenever his attention is drawn to that object/person but he is yet to look to an object or person if we say it randomly.

He is incredibly social.  He LOVES to be tickled, and is super playful.  He smiles at people and even stares at someone across the room and "talks" to them until he gets their attention.  He still has some anxiety about being passed around in a crowd and also doesn't seem to be a fan of men with beards (which my dad unfortunately has...) but he'll get used to them!

Overall we are so proud of how far he has come! and can't wait to see what the next 6 months have in store.

As for his 6 month photos being ready in time for this post, David's unexpected work trip delayed their completion.  Such is life!  No biggie.  We'll post them as soon as they are done for sure! Here is his monthly owl shot:

5 months, 4 months, 3 months, 2 months, 1 month

David has spent the day on a boat for a bachelor party having tons of fun, no doubt.  Ayden and I went with him when he met up with the guys and stayed at our friends house for the morning.  Ayden was a good boy.  The bride for this bachelor/bachelorette weekend, Jessica, is a long time friend of mine.  We grew up dancing together and went to school together from middle school on.  Ayden's due date was January 17th and Jessica's birthday is January 21st.  She always said, "Maybe you'll go late and have him on my birthday!"  Ayden must have heard her request because after 42 hours of labor, they became birthday buddies!  She gave him a half birthday present.  He loved everything about it, including the paper and the box.

 Ayden has been a trooper at the hotel.  Once we got him back to sleep last night he slept well.  David got him down for his morning nap while I got ready.

He looks so tiny in the king size bed!

Now we are back at the hotel.

Chillin'

There is a lingerie shower at 5 but I thought a baby's attendance would probably change the mood of things ;).  We are going to chill here until David's return then I'll meet back up with the girls for dinner at 7 and honkey tonkin' after that!   I've pumped after every feeding since last night and have enough for two feedings while I'm gone.  I'll also empty out before I leave so David should have more than enough, just in case.  Now I'm going to try and catch Ayden's next nap with him so I can have some energy for this evenings festivities.  Should be a fun night!

~Sarah

Chomp Chomp

 

We are traveling to Nashville this weekend to partake in the bachelor/bachelorette festivities for some great friends of ours.

Ayden and I spent the day prepping for the trip...

"Helping" me do laundry :)

...and I have to say I wasn't as on top of things as I was a couple of weeks ago for the family reunion. It was also a floating head kind of day (when I'm so tired that I feel like a floating head and seem to walk in circles all day) so if David hadn't come home early from work to help out, who knows when we would have gotten on the road.

After my usual morning routine, plus a couple of extra loads of laundry, I took the pets to their boarding destinations (Mav to the kennel and Polly to my parents' house). On my way home, I stopped at the bank to get us some cash and by that time David was home and ready to come with us on a grocery run.

Our strict eating regimen hardly phases us during our everyday lives anymore but during social occasions and traveling it can definitely be inconvenient. That is not to say it isn't worth it, but it adds to the chaos of trip prep just the same. When we got home, David got to work on making a batch of paleo crunch cereal and rounding up the rest of the food and I started packing. We left the house at about 5:00 which was 2 hours later than we had anticipated.

We had a couple of stops to make and Ayden had fallen asleep in the Ergo right before we left and transitioned to his carseat very well so David hung with him in the car while I took care of an errand at the mall. While I was in line, David texted me and said that Ayden had woken up screaming and that he had cut a tooth! One day shy of his half birthday. No wonder Little Man has been so fussy lately. Hopefully now that it's through he'll get a little break before the next one comes. Not sure if it would be better to get them all over with at once or to have them come one at a time with breaks in between...  Lose, lose situation for the poor little guy if you ask me!

Can barely see it but it's the little white line right under his tongue!

The rest of the car ride was pretty brutal to be honest. I continued to feel like a floating head and added a terrible headache to that awesomeness. Ayden stayed awake the whole way which was fine for the first half of the trip but for the second half he was tired and eventually hungry and got the screams, which only made my headache worse! Then, to top it off I started getting car sick from sitting in the back, attempting to keep him as happy as I could.  It is so hard to pretend to have energy when you feel like poo.  As for feeding Ayden, since we were so close and I just wanted to get to the hotel ASAP, I got out my manual pump and started pumping.  The trouble was I waited a bit too long and when he saw me lift my shirt and unsnap my bra, he was ready to be nursed.  So I was feeding him an ounce at a time with one hand while I pumped with the other.  When he'd finish the ounce he was working on, and I'd take the bottle to refill it, he'd start crying.  I'm pretty sure he would have nursed (the bottle) to sleep if it had a full feeding in it.  We ended up pulling over and then he was just so excited to get out of his car seat that he didn't want to nurse anymore.  Silly boy...  He was definitely less than excited to get back into his car seat for the remainder of the ride but he finally gave in to sleep about 15 minutes before we arrived at the hotel, though not without a fight.  We were all SO OVER the car ride by the time we got to our hotel.

David made a ton of trips carrying all of our stuff in from the car but we finally got everything in to our room and are settled in for the night.  Ayden woke up on the way in and was so excited to see the new surroundings of the hotel room that it'll probably take a while to get him settled back in.  David's working on that as I type.

Tomorrow the festivities begin so we're hoping to get at least some sleep...  David is going to the bachelor party during the day.  They are getting a boat and spending the day on a lake.  The girls are meeting up later for a lingerie shower, dinner and a night of honkey tonkin'. The plan is for David and I to trade off with Ayden. I am pumping now and will after every feeding tomorrow.  I'm hoping to get two feedings worth to leave David with while I'm out with the girls.  It should be an interesting and hopefully fun weekend!

Ayden turns 6 months old tomorrow.  Can't believe it!

~Sarah